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Tests Passed

Our days continue to be buried in things to do but we’re making progress.

On the insurance front we have ‘over-progressed’. No funds were received on Thursday so I let the insurer know asking them at the same time how much they’d sent. Being in Europe they came back that night saying they’d sent an amount over twice what I was expecting. This was a surprise. At some point this would have to be corrected but I thought it would be better to receive the money then figure out how much to send back. On Friday we received an amount somewhere between what we were expecting and what they said they’d sent. With cash in the bank I let the insurance company know I was now confused and put it back in their hands to explain. I have since started to make the final payments to the suppliers who’ve finished their work.

There’s still a few things being worked out with Dignity and the things we need to do to complete the sale keeping everyone as happy as possible. It’s a big moment for everyone. I remember back to our own moving aboard Dignity in 2008 and the stresses involved. What really stands out in my memory from those days was the unconditional support we received from folks around us. Our friends Jim and Anne on Bees Knees and Tom and Pat on Lone Star are strong in my memories. There’s a saying within the cruising community (and outside) that you simply pay it forward. I really hope we will have a chance of paying it forward, in a small way, to the buyers and get them started on their own dream.

This concept of paying it forward figures large in my mind at the moment. On such a vastly important matter, my life no less, we have received such unconditional support from those around us. There is no adequate way to ‘pay’ this back. I wonder how, perhaps, I can pay forward this gift.

On Friday I had a comprehensive blood test performed. It had been due on Monday but the hospital had agreed to bring it forward to Friday so we could know before the weekend if I was fit to travel to Brisbane next week. One of the possible complications was a collapse in my blood cell counts which was why I went through the harvest. It was really heartening that the hospital was not only willing to adjust the timetable to meet our needs but even put a priority on analyzing the blood simply to allow us to book our tickets. In the afternoon, one of the oncology doctors called me up and simply said, “Go and buy your tickets, everything looks good.” Flights are now booked and a car rented.

On Friday evening we went into Melbourne to meet our New Zealand friends, Lew and Tracey, who serious blog readers may recall us meeting early 2011 on the Otago Rail Trail. They’re over here on holiday and for Dr. Lew to attend a medical conference. They’re both very close to our hearts as, among other things, they also offered to help out when I first became ill.

We drove into Melbourne and walked around the South Bank for a while before heading to their hotel. We shared a couple of bottles of bubbly in their hotel room before going out into the city to eat. We ended up back in their room for tea and more chat and left after 11pm. It was really, really good to see them again and catch up with our lives. Good news is we’re meeting them again tomorrow.

On the way home Helen, being the DD for the night, had a first ever experience. She was breathalyzed. She also passed her test.

This morning we had the delight of going to see Roz, Sarah and Russ’s daughter, playing netball for her club. She scored three goals herself and, more importantly, really played a solid team game often passing the ball to others than taking more challenging shots herself. Her team won which made it all the better.

It was really special for us to be involved with the family in this way. Even if it was a bit chilly.

Admin

Really not a lot to say since the weekend. I can’t believe how much time we’re spending on admin. We’re selling a boat, three properties and planning our future. Each have their own challenges and doing anything from the other side of the world has extras complications. It’s a full time job. Each day I go and have another blast of X-Rays. I’ve reached the point where I fall asleep lying down in my mask. It’s oddly comfortable. The only bit that I don’t like is when they blast my head and my optic nerves fire up giving me a blue flash and afterglow.

Yesterday morning we witnessed a partial solar eclipse. The full eclipse was seen up in Cairns. Our original plans had been to be sailing south around this time and to catch the full eclipse out at sea. In hindsight this would have been too late in the year to be safe and of course this year has worked out a bit different. Helen and I managed to capture a few pictures using sides torn off a cornflake box and making a crude pinhole camera.

I’ve also spent a lot of time recently looking into our future technology needs. I haven’t come to a full conclusion but am close to settling on our first smart phone. I am quite attracted to the new Nexus 4. This means we’ll be committing to the Google/Android open paradigm rather than the controlling, fingers around the throat Apple paradigm, despite their wonderful looks. It seems pretty popular as it sold out in the UK & US within hours of launch.

One final note to nearly celebrate. The insurance company have told me they’ve sent the final payment. They’ve not said how much and it hasn’t appeared yet. When it arrives and if it’s the right amount we may just treat ourselves.

Great Ocean Road – Day 4

We started our last day ‘on the road’ very slowly. It felt nice lying in bed and relaxing. All four of our legs ached which I found pleasing as it meant it wasn’t just me. The motel manager was gracious enough to allow us an extra half hour to check out.

Our first stop was Erskine Falls not far from Lorne. We have seen more dramatic falls in our lives but these were still pleasant.

Our next stop was the light house at Aireys Inlet. The light house was very similar to the one the previous day so we passed on paying to climb up it.

We had a walk down to one of the beaches. The cliffs had a very similar geology to those we’d visited further west. Again, I had no trouble with the steps going up.

The weather had lost its perfection having gone quite a bit colder and very much windier. This leads me to the following question and possible answers…

Q. What Happened to the Hair?

The answer my friend, Is Blowing In The Wind

Or is it, Gone With The Wind

We ate our lunch in the car where we stopped for another (and our last) lookout. We then headed back to Moorabbin for my next round of chemo. There I learned some more about my hand from the X-Ray taken last week. They had found evidence of a broken bone but it was a years old injury. Apart from that, nothing to worry about.

Then it was back to Wheelers Hill to spend the evening with Sarah and Russ entertained with each other’s company, a bit of jigsawing and an episode of Coupling. Helen finished off my last few head hairs with the moustache trimmer on my electric shaver. It doesn’t look too bad, does it.

This morning I’ve had my 14th round of RT and a meeting with my haematology consultant. He’s very pleased with how I look and feel and even commented on my new ‘hair’ style.

We now have rough dates for my final two rounds of chemo, the second being between Xmas and New Year. Final MRI and visit with the consultants will be first half of January. Then we will be done. It’s hard to imagine after all we’ve been through but there is light at the end of the tunnel. A bright one.

Great Ocean Road – Day 3

The word that springs immediately to mind when thinking about Sunday’s weather is ‘perfect’. Saturday wasn’t too far off but Sunday couldn’t have been better.

Our first destination was the Cape Otway Lightstation. We’d heard that the road down to the Lightstation offered the best opportunity to see koalas in the area. We mentioned this to our host before leaving and he told us to just look out for where other cars had stopped and there we would find them. And find them we did. In fact, we found so many and managed to get so close to a couple that we’re now quite koalad out.

The lighthouse and its surrounds were quite interesting. I feared I might have difficulties climbing the spiral stairs inside the lighthouse but reached the top feeling quite ok. From the top we had wonderful views of the coast made all the better by the perfect weather.

From the lighthouse we pressed on a little further east stopping off at Mait’s Rest Rainforest Walk. It wasn’t a long walk but it did descend a way at first before becoming quite easy. At the end of the trail was a tree one could climb through. An obvious photo opportunity.

Throughout the day I had been thinking a bit about my illness and my own attitude towards it, particularly in light of my fall last week. It had shaken both of us and left us feeling quite low for a while and still feeling fragile later. I was wondering how much of my current difficulties walking was real and how much was in my head. I suddenly realized how important it was to see oneself as a survivor rather than victim. It’s not as though I’ve not been thinking positively. I definitely have. But in a lot of ways I have still thought of myself as being ill and beating it. The reality is that I am already past my first sell by date and with more than a little help from those around me I have survived. And continued to survive. And will continue. So each day I am winning. I felt very positive about this. I then turned my mind to my walking and told myself to get going and not be limited like I have felt for so long. For the first time in 6 months I then overtook Helen, on the uphill section going back no less, feeling quite comfortable.

I’ve often said that our cruising life was as much a journey through our own minds as it was across the oceans. This is more than ever the case right now.

After this walk it was time for a late lunch which we took in Apollo Bay, a very nice and relaxed seaside town. From there we decided to head on to Lorne where we had accommodation booked for the night. The road between these two towns was the highlight being a winding cliff hugging route with fantastic views.

At Lorne we checked into our accommodation, spent a while sorting out photos and uploading them before going out for a walk through town. At the other end of town we stopped for a beer at the hotel overlooking the town and beach and chatted about the day. We then stopped off for noodles for dinner sitting outside having an interesting conversation with a young nanny who has recently moved into the area.

Our weekend is nearly at an end. We still have today left as my next RT session is after 4pm. We both feel we’ve experienced a ‘normal’ weekend together in the midst of this abnormal period of our lives. A real upper. My hair is now well on its way to disappearing completely not without a lot of help from me. It was beginning to come out so easily it became quite irresistible pulling out the tufts that wanted to come away. I now look quite a mess and will almost certainly shave it all off tonight as long as the oncology staff suggest otherwise. I don’t care how it looks really. It’s not a mark of my illness. It’s a badge of my survival which I wear with pride. And, of course, Dignity.

Great Ocean Road – Day 2

We spent Saturday out and about visiting the scenery near Port Campbell and self indulging with some of the nearby producers.

Our first stop was Lord Ard Gorge named after a clipper ship that ran aground there in 1878 with only 2 survivors. The skies had cleared from the previous day and the early morning sunshine was in the perfect place to view and take pictures of the scenery. At this spot there were stairs down to the beach where we could see some stalactite formations and see the gorge from a different angle. The steps were good exercise for me.

Our next stop was the famous 12 Apostles of which only 8 currently remain. The sites popularity was evident from the number of tourists present. Fortunately this is still the off season and the numbers weren’t too heavy. We could imagine what it might be like in the holiday season.

We then began our tour of self indulgence. Our first stop was Gorge Chocolates where we were able to sample some of the chocolate products make on site.

Our next stop was Apostle Whey Cheese where we also had sampling session led very well by the owner. Here they make their cheeses from first principals, ie. they breed the cattle, raise them, obtain the milk and turn it into cheese.

It didn’t stop there. Our next delight was wine tasting at the Newtons Ridge Vineyard. Here we sampled a selection of white wines, a rose and a couple of reds.

We then drove to Timboon where we had lunch. On the way we spotted a Koala on the road. By the time I retrieved my camera from my jeans pocket another vehicle had passed by and we lost the best picture. It was still interesting to see one ambling around rather than stuck up a tree.

After stopping off at the supermarket for some provisions we headed over to the Timboon Distillery for some more tastings – whiskey, spirits and their delicious ice cream. I really liked their whiskey but baulked at the bottle price. AU$120 for a ½ liter bottle was a bit pricey. Their homemade ice cream was delicious.

We had planned on visiting the nearby strawberry picking fields but the prospect of grubbing around on the ground with my now very tired legs and both our full stomachs left this potential stop less desirable. We didn’t go but did pick up a punnet of strawberries at the distillery.

We headed back to our motel room quite exhausted where we both had a brief sleep. Around 5pm we felt we had some energy left (ie, Helen suggested this and I agreed) to go out for a walk around (along) Port Campbell. It was not a long walk as it’s not a big place. We went as far as the dock which had a few fishermen and a boat crane that reminded both of us of Niue.

Back at our room we ate our dinner. Can you guess what we had?

Yup. It was cheese, wine, strawberries, ice cream and chocolates.

One final note. We knew this was going to happen but I secretly hoped I’d be different from everyone else. My hair has begun to fall out. Not very fast yet but I’ve been in the habit of giving it a gentle pull each day. Yesterday I started to see bits coming out. Oh well. I’ve been bald before. It’s not so bad and it’s supposed to come back.