Aboard Dignity (Lagoon 420) Blog

The trip back to Henley was a little mixed. The recent period of colder and wetter than normal (which sounds normal for the UK) had failed to abate so the town’s charms were not available for us. The property we were revisiting, on a second viewing, looked more tatty than we remembered and we both left feel less enthusiastic towards it.

(Incidentally, these are the last pics I plan to capture from my phone as I now have a replacement for my old camera still stuck in “Lens Error”)

The estate agent knows we won’t be making any decisions until after our specialist visit on June 11th. He said there already is an alternate offer on the place. We said we wouldn’t compromise our position. If the place is still available when we’re happy to make a decision then it’s still possible I suppose.

In contrast, the Star Trek movie, Into Darkness, was a lot of fun.

That evening we went to the Aylesbury Lymphoma Support group seeing some now familiar faces.

On Saturday we drove to Guildford to attend the Lymphoma Association AGM and patient/carer conference. It was a very interesting day, particularly hearing of current developments for new treatments. Prof Linch was a guest speaker. Although we were in front of him, four rows back, he didn’t recognize us.

Helen’s persuaded me to book an early appointment to see him about my recent drowsiness which is stubbornly refusing to go away.

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Taking advantage of the fact that our friends Anne and John were in the country last weekend, we decided to take a break.

First stop was Swindon on Monday to visit Anne and John who were staying with their son Martin. As the weather was nice we decided to have lunch at the Red Lion, Avebury. This pub has the distinction of being inside a stone circle.

We had a wander around the standing stones, the nearby village and over to, but not up, Silbury Hill.

John had work on in Zurich so was whisked away shortly before 5pm. Helen and I spent the evening with Anne before and stayed the night.

The next morning we were off to Yate to visit Ben, Sarah’s father. Sarah is Helen’s cousin who looked after us last year.

Another pub dinner was in order for evening meal. We drove over to the Severn River and watched the sun setting over Wales from the vantage point offered by the mount on which St Arida Church was built. This time final destination was The Anchor Inn at Oldbury-on-Severn.

The next day our destination was Penzance, Cornwall, to visit Helen’s sister and her husband, Robin. To break the trip, we stopped off at Launceton to visit the old castle there. The weather had now turned cold and it started to rain while we were there so the castle visit was brief.

For now, here’s a few pics, including some from Henley-on-Thames.

In so many ways.

First it was big because we had seven viewings today, four in Henley-on-Thames and three in Marlow. By number seven we were pretty burned out but no regrets.

Today the weather was perfect. Blue skies and temps in the low 20s allowed us to see these two towns outside of winter. And it was glorious. Walking around Henley, particularly down by the river, brought on a real happy state.

The Henley houses we viewed were an interesting mix which we visited in the following order :

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The first was delightful. It was on a busy road but close to the center of Henley. It had a divine back garden, no grass, just stone, patio, tree, bamboo, quite the oasis of tranquility. It hit all our buttons bar it not having two upstairs bathrooms. This maybe a comprise we can make but it’s not enough to push us into an offer right now. This is a definite maybe.

The second property was only on the list as it was listed by the same agent as the first. It turned out to be quite a surprise. It was in a fantastic location and while not having the number of bedrooms we want it scored on many points. Even being on the second floor was sort of mitigated by being right by a major supermarket so just in time provisioning would mitigate having to lug large supplies up the stairs. The main problem is the long term view where we’d like somewhere we could live in when we fall apart (as if we haven’t already).

The third property was also very well located. It comes with a commercial lease generating income from a hairdressers below. There are some complications which we believe are the reason this property has been on the market for a while. But for those willing to face the complications it represents a possible fine deal.

The last property was quaint and the interior attractive. But the combination of size, location and orientation to North was not positive so this ones off.

After the mornings burst of activity we explored the town, had lunch down by the river and even had a stroll along the river. This blew us away as the perfect weather showed the town in it’s glory. We can really see ourselves living here.

In the afternoon we headed over to Marlow. We had over an hour to spare before our first appointment so we had another walk around town. Marlow is also a beautiful town on the river but had the sense of a Henley-lite. We can imagine walking the 7 or 8 miles along the river from Henley to Marlow to experience the town. But when we imagined walking the other direction we could only see ourselves asking why we never started in Henley.

But we had three properties to see.

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The first was right on the high street. There was no assigned parking but despite having all the character we love, it wasn’t quite big enough. An eye opener but it’s not on our short list.

Our first thoughts about the second property was that it was just too far out of town and along an uninspiring road. Walking up the garden to the property we were bowled over. Inside the property was equally impressive. Despite all this, it didn’t have the right balance of room types and the location was too far from town to meet our needs and too high a price to compensate for this. We passed.

The last property was the home of an airport architect (we’re talking major airports here). This resulted in a modern home that was pretty unique and incredibly appealing. The distance from center of town was a bit too far for us so this remains a property to keep an eye on.

So that’s the detailed house by house view on the day. But a bigger picture emerged for both of us. With the fine spring weather, the river and the town character we’ve now very much settled on Henley and, to a lesser extent, Marlow as an ideal location. Doesn’t mean to say this is where we’ll end up but it’s now the benchmark against which we now feel we must measure everything else. We saw enough prospects in each area to allow us to believe finding something where, even if we have to compromise, we can be happy. So it’s a good time to have our Cornwall break as this new perspective needs time to settle in. One thing we do realize is that the third Henley properties raised a lot of questions and things to learn so that can start now even though we feel a long way from committing.

All this comes with one big caveat. We know that a lot of this makes a lot less sense if my health takes a turn for the worst during this high risk period. What helps is that I now have my next MRI and consultancy with the Prof booked for the 7th/11th of June. We’re hoping for a new betting forecast from the Prof which could well influence things. For now we’ve decided to plan for heads rather than tails and deal with tails if it happens. But we’ve also decide not to commit to anything until we get the June form book.