Steve has asked me to write this blog because he is feeling very worn out and just being able to lie back, relax and take a rest from the internet is just what he needs.
There’s been some challenges with his treatment lately. He’s developed complications with the liver and is a bit yellow at the gills.
This diversion means Steve’s next round of chemo has been delayed and the gap we needed to get to Ben and Amy’s wedding in Connecticut has basically gone. This is the saddest part and we are very disappointed. We are consoled by the fact that another ceremony will be planned in the UK for all the family and friends here.
The care and treatment Steve is receiving here at University College Hospital has been excellent. He has a nice (although very clinical looking) private room with an ensuite. I can stay overnight whenever I want as it’s easy to make up a spare bed in his room. I have taken advantage of this a few times but in general I go home most nights. I do need a break from the hospital.
The journey to and from hospital is not too bad. The train line is direct from Chesham to Euston Square with no changes. The hospital is literally just across the road from Euston Sq. station. If I catch the fast train, the journey is about 50 minutes. If I catch the slow (stops at all stations) train it can take an extra 20 to 30 minutes. I don’t mind as I get time to read and occasional talk to fellow passengers.
These are certainly challenging times and I thank all those who have been sending us good wishes. As always Steve continues to stay positive and faces any new issues with his usual humour and courage.
Hi Helen thanx for update your both in my thoughts is the house purchase still going ahead ? I’m not sure if Ashley keeps in touch but I do give him regular updates. I saw Erin and robin the other night when I was working they look really well. I’m so pleased to hear Steve is receiving good care and your needs are being met allowing you to stay must be a great support. Will look forward to next update and some good news xx
Life throws many challenges at us, take them one by one, as you have done in the past. All you can do is keep going forward, just like heading for that next harbor. Take care of both of you.
Greetings from the West Coast of Canada. I just recently came across your great blog and have been slowly reviewing your adventures with great interest, and with pen and paper at hand, as we recently bought an ’08 Lagoon 420, Avanga, which is currently in charter in Belize. We are planning short trips down to the boat but next year plan to set off following a similar path across the Caribbean and Pacific. We join the many others in wishing Steve all the best and a steady recovery, and thank him and you for providing us with invaluable insights as we plan and scheme our future get away.
Hi Steve and Helen
You’re in choppy waters at present but we sincerely hope that you’re heading for calm seas…and home to Chesham for Steve. It’s tough times for both of you so take it a day at a time and stay strong. Members of the support group will be at the local Cancer Research Relay for Life at the weekend with the LA stand and will be thinking of you both as we do lots of (walking) laps.
Very best wishes as ever Pat & David
Dear Steve and Helen – never had anything to do with Blogs before, so hope this works. Thinking of you both such a lot, and Norma and Susie back in SA; you’re having a tough time and we’re all keeping our fingers tightly crossed that they get your medication sorted and things start to improve. Tried to put in a couple of funny memories, but there doesn’t seem to be room, so will send you our fondest love, Ro, Chris, Kate and Louise
Hi Helen. How goes it? Lew and I are constantly checking for word from you both. Thanks for blogging, it must be hard , for you both. Am i right in reading you are in your new house. God Helen, my heart goes out to you…..we love you both so much, you guys make this world a much better place with your wonderful spirits . keep them up girl. heres praying Steve will get to come home with you soon, real soon. Hang in there Steve, all power to you dear one.
hi helen and steve,
i think i can speak for everyone that knows you, or reads your blog, or that you have met on your travels, in wishing steve a speedy and full recovery, and helen the strength to cope with this troubled time.
mick and nicky
Thanks for keeping all your friends and readers updated Steve & Helen. We are all thinking about you regularly. Gordon