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Plettenberg Bay

Thursday was our last night (at least for this visit) in Grahamstown. We took Mum and spent the evening at Sue’s home. The next morning we sorted our final things out and left mid-morning with one quick stop, again, at Sue’s.

Our destination was Plettenberg Bay some 3 hours and 30 mins drive to the the west. We took a stop at Jeffrey’s Bay for lunch. We found a sushi bar looking out over the sea. More importantly it was covered, as the weather had been grim all morning.

Due to the weather we had no appetite for exploring so we pushed on to Plettenberg Bay, google maps flawlessly bringing us to our destination.
Yesterday, Saturday, the weather was only slightly improved. We stayed in for the morning and in the afternoon decided to try our luck with the combined Monkeyland / Birds of Eden attractions.

We’re very glad we did. For two reasons. The first is that they were both particularly good. The second is that the weather today is truly awful.

Monkeyland involved joining a group and being guided around a few acres of enclosed forest containing 10 species of primates. An not just monkeys, we had lemurs and apes too. We were lucky enough to see all 10 species.

Birds of Eden claims to be the worlds largest aviary and probably is. Inside there is a three dimensional pathway snaking down, up and across a verdant valley populated by many species of birds and a few more monkeys. Different areas were crafted into different habitats attracting different populations of birds. While we’re not bird watchers ourselves, we can believe this to be a twitchers paradise.

You may notice these photos are not as good as I normally take. My regular camera has failed due to a lens error – probably as a result of sand. Ironic really given where it’s been over the last few years. So these photos, taken in low light with my phone camera, are a bit fuzzy and grainy. I will have to decide soon if I should get the camera fixed or buy a new one. Any advice readers?

Today, with the weather as miserable as one would expect for the UK (joy), we’ve stayed in. We both feel as though we’ve picked up a bit of a cold – perhaps from one of the many children attracted to Monkeyland. We are hoping to go to the movies this evening to break the day a little.

The last two evenings we ate out. Friday night at a cheap Chinese which was as good as we paid. Last night we upped the ante and had a very palatable curry / pizza.

In Memory

Goodbye Dad

Yesterday we said goodbye to my Dad. After battling lung cancer for the last few years, he finally succumbed to the disease earlier this week.

He hung on to see through the final events that mattered to him in his life. His move into their cottage, my sister’s family move into their (Mum & Dad’s) old home, my sister’s 50th and seeing the family here in South Africa, complete with a new generation and a new betrothal.

We believe he enjoyed his last day. He watched the Grand Prix, a couple of episodes of ‘Allo ‘Allo which both he and Mum loved. We were able to show him panoramic photos of what Sue had managed to do with their old kitchen.

We had a commemoration and celebration ceremony at his old home led by a very close family friend, Father Larry Kaufman. Per the families wishes, it was non-religious, very human service. My brother-in-law introduced Larry to the close friends invited. Larry then took us through a formal commemoration of Dad’s life before lighting a candle to represent my father’s life. Then, the seven family members there, my mother, my sister, Max, Jay, Sarah, Helen then myself took turns to pass the flame from my father’s candle to another one of seven representing each of us before we each read our own eulogy. Very apt and very emotional.

We had one further euolgy from Barbara Bull, the families doctor and very close friend before Larry summarized and transitioned the formal ceremony into the celebration by toasting his memory and inviting everyone to tuck in.

I don’t know if my Dad planned it this way but he picked the perfect moment to move on. He maximized his time with us and left before Jay’s daughters marriage next week and our own planned departure tomorrow. It was so heartening to be there and to see all the support from their friends and to know Mum will be surrounded by a cadre who will provide her an active life. In fact, Mum is transitioning so well, perhaps it is them that will need the support as she really is ready to move on.

Hopefully this caps the spectre that has been hovering over this family for the last year, in all it’s forms. Full speed ahead.

Another Chapter Closes

We have peace here in South Africa.  There has been another reason for being here in South Africa at this time and those close to us know what I mean. An emotional day.

Settled

Money is in the bank.  Last Australian bill paid.  Insurance cancelled.  Currency contract booked so our funds can sit in Australia for 3 months.

Time to breath a sigh of relief?  Too bloody right it is.

Although we believed the deal to be done there is nothing more definitive than seeing the funds show in your own bank account.  Settlement took longer than it should have done which was frustrating as the Ozzie dollar has been steadily falling off it’s recent peak against the UK pound.  Very frustrating as the tiniest changes in fx have big $$$ impacts.  It can go either way of course but the feeling is prevalent that down is the direction it’s going.

So what can I say now that I couldn’t say before?  I want to be careful here and simply stick to facts.  But we’ve reached survey twice and the two experiences were completely different.

On the whole, this second time has been more mature, more professional and less hostile than the first.

The broker for the actual sale, Jason Chipp from Ensign, worked hard all the way through, brought multiple prospects to the table, handled conflicting interests very professionally and maintained almost constant communication.

The first broker started off with the appearance of being very helpful albeit often hard to contact.  To the point where we made recommendations to friends.  As the first sale broke down we had learned the broker had used my health battle as emotional coercion which had had a very negative result on the buyers.  Then, having given both Helen and I assurances that the boat would be professionally handled during survey and that any issues that transpired would be covered, and then finding the boat had been dinged then badly tied to the dock causing dock scratches, the broker backed off any responsibility at high speed denying any responsibility from the get go.  The damage was so minor that their reaction was very hard to understand.  When pointed out that the broker was damaging the fine reputation they’d built up to that point and that we would be sharing their emails with the friends we’d made recommendations to (it would after all be disingenuous if all we did was share part of positive side of our experience) the broker threatened to tell all the brokers in the region that Dignity had failed survey and tell the same story to the prime trade magazine in the area.  This was a lie of course as there is a colossal difference between a buyer finding reasons to back out of a sale and a boat failing survey.  The broker, like an idiot, said all this in an email so I forwarded it to the magazine, the publisher and all the brokers we were in contact with so that they could read the whole thread and make their own minds up.  We did get one prospect who mentioned they’d heard that Dignity had ‘failed survey’ and wondered how that could be.  They didn’t disclose where they had heard that but for now, that first broker has now lost any shred of the benefit of doubt.  There are other reasons, which I won’t go into here, that I would suggest foreign boat sellers to steer away from this broker (if you have any idea who it is).  Contact me if you want to hear more.

You’ve perhaps seen my previous rant about the first buyer’s surveyor.  I’ve since learned more.  It turns out that that surveyor recently lost a court case where they were sued for grossly overstating cost of repairs to a boat (many, many times more than 10x) to drive survey values down to near zero.  I had thought he was a blind fool, with reckless survey procedures but it now appears he is known for doing what he does.  The second surveyor turned out to be the same surveyor we used to value Dignity for import.  The only issue we had with him (and I believe the buyer took issue too) was that he listed a slightly less than trivial item having not discussed it with the buyer and broker on the boat when all the other items were discussed.

And how each buyer handled the process was considerably different too.  The second buyer appeared above it all and ignored all the niggly things the surveyor chose to list.  This was in contrast to the first buyers who brought to our attention a lot of trivial items from the first survey (including the issues the surveyor fabricated) and even the electrics which the boat was listed as having.

Whatever the reason for all this I know the second buyer is and will continue to be happy the first buyer pulled out.  On sea trial, with the help of her new rig and sails, she flew along at 10 knots in 20 knots of wind and did well in all conditions.  His critical friends, also aboard, were completely bowled over.  She passed survey with only $400 ultimately negotiated off the contract for the item I mentioned earlier.

As you can see, it’s been a long process and it’s the frustrations that stand out more than the highlights.

So it’s done.  Dignity is sold.  The money is in the bank.  Now, bar some small details, the focus is fully on the future.  I’ll leave writing about that for the next blog.